Tempus fugit. That phrase has been running through my mind recently as the weather starts to change and summer chores turn to preparation for fall, then for winter. I've always taken pride in taking care of business for myself, the chores that need to be done around the house and yard, the maintenance on the house, repairs and updates. But recently there's been more than enough to go around.
The summer began with a huge windstorm--the derecho that hit Madison in May and kept us busy with huge downed trees and damaged buildings, both at home and at the rental property. Work on a flip house I bought in March ate up much of the summer. Covid. Drought. Renters moving out, with the updates that come from that process, including painting the entire garage and the trim on the house. Furnace troubles there. Yard work.
Most recently we discovered a leak in the plumbing in the upstairs bathroom. Dealing with that problem is on the agenda for today. The seeping water has been going on for some time, and it damaged the 220 volt line running out to the dryer in the back entry, requiring a new line, which I installed yesterday after the electrician that came said he got it working (he didn't). His diagnosis was that the dryer was bad, so we went hunting for a dryer (and considered buying a washer/dryer set) until some friends offered their old dryer when they bought a new set. But it was the line, and our dryer was fine. It's all back together. But the leak remains. And we have an extra dryer sitting in the back yard.
Meanwhile, the rental garage still isn't painted, the flip house awaits, and my visits to my mom in the nursing home have fallen off.
Also--and maybe this weighs more on my mind than anything else--some of my family have cut me off from communication. The past couple of days have seen some changes, though. One brother and his son are in town to see Mom, but there's nothing from them and I suspect I won't see them. Messages go unanswered. Same with my daughter. And another brother. At the same time, another brother who has been simply out of touch for years called and we had a good talk. Maybe that's the way these days. It's easy to let go of people, I guess. Maybe it always has been.
But time goes on. I'm not sure if it heals wounds.
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